November 6, 2009

baby update / advice please!


Had my 16 week apt. today. All is perfect! Thank God for a healthy baby!
The baby's heart beat was strong; I still am taken back every time we get to hear that. It's amazing. I am still feeling great. Even my extreme tiredness is fading! I still go to bed earlier than normal, but it's so much better than pure exhaustion during the day. I even did a P90X workout yesterday as opposed to a slow walk/jog or tennis. Granted, I am having trouble walking today because of it, but the point is I had the energy to do it!

We tried to talk the dr. into doing an ultrasound to find out the sex. He said no. Isn't the customer always suppose to be right? Doesn't this apply to patient/dr. relationships too? Maybe not. We had a 12 week ultrasound and he wants to do a 20 week one, so it looks like we will be waiting a little longer before buying blue or pink. Unless I can get up to Jackson to have my sister take a peek. Hmm... We'll see!

The decision I can't seem to decide on is if I want to have the H1N1 shot or not. I can't decide. My dr. recommended that I do, but I am being a little chicken about it. I had the seasonal flu shot, but the H1N1 shot seems so new and unstudied. I am sure it has been well researched, but I am worried how it will affect my growing wee one. Thoughts?
TGIF everyone!

November 2, 2009

all my guests are gone.

insert sad face here.

But we had a great time, so I shall not focus on the fact that they have all left! My mom, dad, and Nana came on Wednesday for a short trip. Naturally we showed them fabulous fresh seafood (none of which I could partake in), and gave them a quick tour of the coast. Which could have possibly been more beneficial for me, but I acted like I was a local and talked about the building back since Katrina. I think they were impressed with my knowledge that I stole from the website.
We had so much fun, just in that short time. I wish it could have been longer. And I could kick myself for not having any pictures. My camera has been acting up (perhaps Santa wants to bring me a new one?) so I have been relying on my camera phone far too much. Anyway, no pictures of my parents and Nana's first trip to our little home on the coast. Come back, please.

Then on Friday, Laura came for a long weekend. Apparently the coast tour with the parents did not come in handy for this visit. When she got here on Friday afternoon, we decided to make what turned out to be a not-so-quick run to Target. The reason for the longevity of the trip? I got us lost. Seriously, bona fide no-idea-where-we-are, lost. I still blame it on the Iphone. I plugged in Target and it took me to Target Crime Stop. Who knew? Not me. We ended up in the ghetto in the next town over. Come to find out, Target is a very hard store to miss around here.

Apparently, just right off the interstate. You can see the red circles for miles. Well, no such luck for this newbie. We ended up safely escaping the ghetto to find a decent looking Subway, in which I made Laura go inside ask the teenage sandwich maker directions to the store.

I did take a picture of that:
And, after she insisted that she take the wheel, a picture of her examining the not so clear directions.

If you are wondering, we found it. And if you are also wondering, I bought shoes just so the trip was made worth it.

Sorry, Laura. I also got us a wee bit lost coming home from, was it the grocery store? I can't remember. I blame it on pregnancy brain. It is a real thing, readers.

Sat. we stayed home, no costumes. I really hope by next year to be invited to a Halloween party. I love being the new kid (with child) in town. But I am not bitter. We watched the State game. And what a fabulous game it was. Did anyone else watch Anthony Dixon's interview?
If that didn't make me have a Happy Halloween, I don't know what would.

She left this morning as I was preparing for work. I don't really say "getting ready", because there is little primping that I do before I go into my home office. But I do have to be mentally prepared. I think I needed a long vacation and/or heavy medication to be fully prepared for this Monday, however. But alas, it is over.

Here's to fun times with the family and Monday being over...

October 26, 2009

IT'S A....


OK. So we don't really know.

But Trey's aunt is convinced she has the answer. She has been wanting to do the "string test" on my belly since the day we told them we were pregnant. Have you ever heard of this? Not me. Until now.

We finally caught up with each other on Saturday afternoon. She claims to have never been wrong with this prediction. Even when her coworker was told she was having a boy by the ultrasound tech., the string test said girl...and guess who was right? Aunt Darlene.

So I am thinking about painting the nursery now and not having my ultrasound to determine the sex.

Just kidding. Sorry, Aunt Darlene. As much as I trust you and that string, I am getting a second opinion before I break out the paint color.

Here are some pictures Trey took on my phone. (hence the bad quality)

My face is cracking me up in the first pic. And excuse the fact that I look like I have been hit by a truck. I was tired. Thanks, Aunt Darlene - it was fun!!!
According to the string test, Baby Skaggs is a SHE!
We will find out in a couple of weeks if Aunt Darlene is right!

In the meantime, what do you think "it" is?

Here are some other wives tale symptoms I am having:
• I am breaking out. I NEVER broke out before pregnancy.
• I am tempted most nights to eat skittles for dinner. (use to be plain potatoes / weeks 8-10)
• I can't get enough milk, water or OJ
• I have not been sick at all. Not once. Praise God!

That's all I can think of. So, what's the verdict?

And I just have to share this picture. It is hilarious to me for several reasons:

1) I am holding up "41" instead of "14". We fixed that on take 2.
2) My face. Maybe I wasn't ready?
3) The quality. The hardest part of my pregnancy has been getting weekly pictures taken by Trey for my Belly Book. He is not winning any photography awards anytime soon. In his defense, this was taken on my camera phone.
4) But my FAVORITE reason for this picture is that you can finally see a bump! All the other pictures we took (when I was smiling, head not cut off and holding up the correct number) you couldn't tell I had a bump.

I am still feeling more fat than pregnant, but hopefully I will get out of that soon. I am ready for the bump to look more baby than beer.

So here is my very beautiful 14 week picture. HA!

October 25, 2009

I am pretending we won...

just like the gators are pretending they actually scored that touchdown.

I am over it now. But not without a few yells at the tv and, yes, tears. I would blame it on pregnancy, but alas, I have shed tears about sporting events on more than one occasion. Hey, it's not easy bleeding maroon.

But it seems Dan is not over it. And for good reason. I hope that florida-loving ref is reprimanded.


On a positive note, we gave those gators a run for their money and I am so proud. I wish I could have been there in person to cheer them on a see my sweet family and friends.

I will be there for the Alabama game and, of course, the Egg Bowl. Can not wait!

October 23, 2009

Starkville is not so stark

Last post of the day, I promise, and it is about Starkville/MSU yet again. I am sorry.

But I found a gem written in the Gainsville paper today. You can read more and see pictures by clicking here.

I just love my hometown and love to read about others appreciating the charm!



Starkville is not so stark

Florida fans visiting town for game will find changed area

Published: Friday, October 23, 2009 at 6:01 a.m.
Last Modified: Thursday, October 22, 2009 at 11:12 p.m.

Tumbleweeds of trash rolling down Main Street have been replaced with neon lights and restaurants highlighted in Southern Living magazine - symbolic of this small town's development into an authentic college town.

As Florida football fans arrive for this weekend's game against Mississippi State University, they'll see a town that is quickly maturing.

A decade ago, locals joked that someone could hit a golf ball down Main Street after 5 p.m. and not hit a car. Home to Mississippi State, the town of about 26,000 residents wasn't what many expected from a university community.

The town had four bars for college students and a strained town-gown relationship.

Starkville was suffering from a problem of perception versus reality, voted in some surveys in the 1990s as the worst college town in the Southeastern Conference.

Visitors now, though, might wonder what happened to that town. It's the same place, but much has changed in culture and attitude.

In a decade or so, the community has developed into one of the more progressive communities in Mississippi, leading community initiatives such as free curbside recycling and being the first city in the state to ban public smoking.

About five years ago, a group called Starkville in Motion was created to advocate for more sidewalks and bike paths in the city, leading to the city's first bike paths.

A few months ago, the city requested permission from the state to sell alcohol on Sundays, something considered symbolic of the changing of the guard for the city in northeastern Mississippi.

Even Starkville's mayor appears to represent youth and vigor for the community. Until Parker Wiseman, a Starkville native, was elected this year, the list of previous mayors looked like an AARP convention.

Wiseman, 29, an attorney with a master's degree in public administration, blends campus and city interests together. He served as student government president from 2002-03.

"The fact that younger, more progressive citizens in this community have taken an active role makes it possible for somebody like me to get elected," Wiseman said. "The culture of our city has evolved quite a bit over the last decade."

Some might say culture and nightlife, particularly downtown, have turned from desolation to a destination.

Chef Ty Thames operates two restaurants downtown - Restaurant Tyler and Barrister's Bar and Grill - and says a marked difference has taken place in the five years he has lived in the city after spending time in Italy and Washington, D.C.

He serves dishes specializing in Mississippi flavor, such as Vardaman sweet potato gnocchi.

"I came back to Mississippi to showcase my talents with foods I grew up with," said Thames, whose restaurants were featured in Southern Living magazine. "Starkville has turned into a good place to do it."

Another sign of life in the city has been the emergence of community festivals.

This past weekend, the community celebrated the third-annual Johnny Cash Flower Pickin' Festival, recognizing the city's quirky history with the Man in Black.

Cash was arrested in Starkville in 1965 for public drunkenness. He wrote a song called "Starkville City Jail," claiming he was arrested for picking flowers.

To help accommodate the increased number of events now landing in Starkville, the city recently opened a new Hilton Garden Inn along the Highway 82 bypass, a corridor of anticipated growth around the city.

The addition of more than 100 hotel rooms will help address one of the more frequent concerns voiced in the past by visitors - a lack of accommodations.

Between Main Street and MSU's campus, the Cotton District is another unique piece of Starkville's personality.

A sub-community of new urbanism within the city, the Cotton District has a feel similar to New Orleans' French Quarter and parts of Europe.

Narrow streets and dense living with the occasional statue mounted on buildings, the Cotton District hosts such annual events as the Cotton District Arts Festival and Bulldog Bash - one of the largest outdoor arts events in the state and one of the largest free outdoor annual concerts, respectively.

"Starkville is probably the most unpublicized for what's going on of any community in Mississippi," said Dan Camp, developer of the Cotton District who served as mayor before Wiseman was elected. "People want to move to Starkville."


hoping for an upset

Last time the Gators won in Starkville, MS? 1985.
Here's hoping that streak won't end tomorrow.

Some are predicting it won't.

Oh glorious thought. Fingers crossed...

Go Dawgs!

HAPPY FRIDAY!

October 21, 2009

cousins


This past weekend I got to go to see my little buddy, Henry! We had so much fun playing. He is ALL boy. I love it! We played outside for hours. For each different activity, he needed a different kind of boot on. Playing football, swinging, riding bikes, helping plant flowers with his daddy - all these things required all different types of shoes. But boots each time! He loves boots!

He and I took a break on Saturday for a little lunch. As soon as I sat down by him he asked me where my camera was. Poor child is used to his photo-loving aunts by now.

So here are a few shots I took from my phone of him eating. He asked for them and said "cheeeeeese" the whole time - how could I refuse?
Looks like he is up to something in this picture!

I love that smirk!

He is just hysterical. He told me what he wanted for lunch. That is shredded cheese on his plate, by the way. He said he wanted cheese, so when I handed him slice cheese, he said that he wanted his "daddy's big boy cheese". I had to pull out all the cheese before I finally figured out which one he was talking about!

We told him a few weeks ago that there was a baby in my belly. He thought that was so crazy. So we were talking about it at lunch and I was trying to explain that he will be the big cousin.

Here is how the conversation went:

"I the big cousin because I am big? And I run?" - Henry

"Yeah! And you will have to help with the little baby" - Heather

"And the baby will crawl?" - Henry

"One day! Will you help out with the baby?" - Heather

" I will save her." - Henry

I love it! He is really into "saving" people. He loves firemen and always talks about the firemen saving everyone. So I asked him what he will save her from and he said that "if the baby falls down I will save her"
(not sure why "it" is a "her". Brainwashed by his mama, maybe?)

That is precious! He is already protective. Such a sweet big cousin.

We had the best time, but we missed you, yaya!!

Speaking of yaya, I am having company come see me next week! YIPPEE! My mom, dad and sassy Nana are coming down on Wednesday and then yaya is staying with me over the weekend. I can't wait. Hurry up next week and get here!

Happy Hump-Day!

October 13, 2009

Idiots guide to pregnancy

So I have recently taken up tennis. And by taken up, I mean playing in the afternoons with Trey. No league, no teams. But it's a lot of fun. And I am pleasantly surprised at how well I play. Seriously. You should come watch me.

My Nana is concerned about my new activity, however. She finds it a bit dangerous to be playing this sport while growing a babe.

I asked my Dr: All is well on the tennis front.

But I decided to take matters into my own hands and research the best exercises while with child.

This is my favorite bit of advice I have found so far:

"If your water breaks during any form of exercise, do not continue with the activity. Stop the exercise immediately and seek medical attention."

Did someone really have to be warned about this? Hilarious. I am no expert here, but I am convinced if my water broke while, say, playing tennis, I would not want to complete the set.

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